Sexism

November 02, 2008

SARAH PALIN: A RORSHACH FOR FEMINISTS


Guest post by Artemis March.

Feminist eruptions about Sarah Palin have been stunning. Eve Ensler went ballistic. NOW endorsed an all-male ticket and disavowed Palin. Gloria Steinem contradicted her January op-ed argument. Naomi Wolf spun off into a paranoid fantasy. Feminists urgently circulated petitions full of false claims about Palin. When I sent friends information and links correcting these claims—shouldn't that reduce fear and allow a saner conversation?—two who wrote back were outraged. Friends who normally speak in dulcet tones were suddenly pitched an octave and decibels higher, unable to converse in the normal rhythm of give and take.

I began asking myself, what is going on with feminists as they rationalize lining up with their misogynist Party/candidate while engaging with this new rorschach named Sarah Palin? How is it that feminists—the Americans most caricatured, distorted, misunderstood, and demonized by the Right and by the Left—are themselves caricaturing, misrepresenting, and demonizing a woman whose policies and beliefs offend them? Is it too much to ask that they at least get their facts straight, and not push rumors and unexamined claims as if they were gospel? How is it that Hillary supporters who have aligned with the DNC's selectee are exhibiting some of the behaviors they formerly excoriated in Obama devotees (e.g., self-righteous judgmentalism, and the rejection, denial, or trivializing of information unfavorable to their guy)? Is it just too uncomfortable for them to bear the cognitive dissonance entailed by their second choice?

As to those pesky facts: Palin favors contraception. Despite Ms. Gandy's claim that NOW would not endorse Palin because of her anti-abortion position, as governor and mayor, she never attempted to promote legislation that would weaken or alter abortion laws. Palin tripled (not cut) special needs funding, did not try to ban library books, and has not pushed creationism in schools, only opined that students be allowed to discuss it along with evolutionary theory. Contrary to Charlie Gibson's inquisition and ABC's egregious, libelous cropping and editing of not only his interview with Palin but also of the video clip he referenced, she does not see the Iraq war as a mission from God. She asked Alaskans to pray that what our troops, our leaders, and our country are doing there is part of God's plan. Or, as Lincoln said, to pray that we are on God's side. Many of our past presidents have expressed similar sentiments, and the world didn't end.

Exactly how does trashing Sarah Palin—a savvy, self-made woman with whom so many non-elite Americans can identify—advance the feminist agenda? And how far has that agenda advanced these last 40 years? Sexism is still overwhelmingly invisible, misogyny (literally, hatred of women) does not constitute a hate crime, feminists are ridiculed rather than honored, and gender asymmetry is not even on the table. This appalling state of affairs testifies to the depth and comprehensiveness of patriarchy as well as to the limitations of extant feminist strategies.

In her September 19 and 24 letter to NOW PAC members, Ms. Gandy tells us that, "Palin dismisses talk of sexism as whining and says women just need to 'work harder' and 'prove yourself.'" Certainly Ms Gandy knows as well as I do that women who break barriers often feel they have to ignore the sexism and garbage that is heaped on them. They cannot even name what is going on. Why not? If they do, they are called whiners and ridiculed for "playing the victim."

Worse yet, this double bind is perpetrated not only by the usual suspects, but also by many leftist feminists and self-proclaimed "postfeminists" who denigrate real feminists who are trying to change the many ways women are brutalized by patriarchy. The intention and the result of this leftist/postfeminist ideology is to erase the harsh realities of sexism and misogyny, and deny the validity of women's experience of them—and that is what I call anti-feminist as well as anti-woman.

The truth is this: A woman can't deal with sexism solo. She has to have a Greek Chorus to amplify, interpret, and spin with, for, and about her. And, after 40 years, there is no Greek Chorus for women at the national level. Nada. Zip.

  • There is no feminist voice in the Old Media, let alone a feminist perspective informing all the media. The media are totally androcentric in their framing of all issues. Women who are allowed face time either see the world as their male bosses do, or tread very carefully with their small departures.
  • The DNC never had Hillary's back, never became her Greek Chorus. They not only betrayed their best candidate in 75 years, but they also betrayed the many constituencies for whom she has a long record of fighting.

And here comes Ms. Gandy adding another layer: dumping on Palin for taking the position that female public figures are routinely forced into because establishment feminism doesn't have her back, and have not been able to make it possible for her to do otherwise.

After 40 years, feminist organizations and spokeswomen have not been able to create a cultural context that would make it impermissible to attack women and perpetrate the kind of vicious misogyny directed at Hillary Clinton and now at Sarah Palin. It would be a tall order given that patriarchy has been organizing our social world and our culture for 5,000-6,000 years. The only good news here is that the behavior of the DNC has made it transparent to many of us that we'll never get there by being an appendage of the DNC and held hostage to Roe.

If establishment feminists had any real clout with the DNC, Hillary would be taking the oath of office on January 20. Rather than attacking women candidates who don't fit their precious self-image, leftist so-called feminists and those wondrous postfeminists should get over themselves. If they had done that a year ago, Hillary would be on her way to the White House, and we wouldn't be in this mess of opting between which set of candidates scares us less.

Sarah Palin is a rorschach for the Left and for feminists. She has exposed the boundaries and implicit rules for inclusion in their clubs, thereby sparking a much needed dialogue about what feminism is and can be. She has thrown into relief the limitations of establishment feminist strategies, and blown open the door to alternative strategies. Sarah Palin arrived on the national scene at the moment when many Hillary supporters were recognizing an old political truth: If you can't walk away from the table, you have no bargaining power. If you have no alternatives, you will get nothing but crumbs.

© 2008 by Artemis March.

November 01, 2008

ARE YOU KIDDING??? FROM GRETA ON GRETAWIRE

Are YOU kidding?????? Are these “Feminists” joking? They could not be serious, are they?

I can’t get over it….are they nuts?

There is a group of women who have been calling themselves Feminists for years who are now whacking other women - Feminists- who dare to disagree with them and courageously support Governor Palin because she is trailblazing for women.  The women who are now whacking the courageous Feminists are “side liners” –  women now sitting around writing and blogging about women but have not been seen in years DOING anything for women other than telling us how bad it is. Their inertia (and now criticism of those who disagree with them) has made them utterly irrelevant.    I will give them credit for starting the ball rolling for women (that was yesterday) but now (today) they are in the way.  Now they are putting a stop on women.  They are hurting women.  I can’t figure out why….

Real Feminists are DOERS — working ! Role models! Taking a chance!  Showing everyone women can!  And yes, Feminists are Governors and Governors are Feminists! Feminists are not women drinking the kool aid - blogging with each other how terrible the world is to women.  That doesn’t help.  Frankly, that’s lame…really lame.

Yes, there is sexism in the world and lots of it — but a real Feminist goes out and fights it…and fights it by becoming a role model, being successful, showing we can and we want to…and a Feminist has independent thoughts and positions - yes, dares to disagree with the women who are stuck in the past …those women just blogging …thinking “woe is me..there is sexism out there that stands in my way..that is why I have become so utterly pathetic where only my very small crowd of equally pathetics will listen….I am so unhappy and it must be someone else’s fault.”

You don’t have to agree with Governor Palin on all issues or even one issue to know that she truly IS a Feminist.  She is out there being a role model…she is a doer on a giant level..she takes hits from the media and she keeps going..nothing is stopping her…in fact, she doesn’t have time to sit around and complain.  She creates more opportunity for women each day than one can quantify.  This is what women wanted.  Yes, women can be Governors..engineers…..run for Vice President…professional athletes…news anchors…professors….business owners….lawyers…doctors….and even astronauts.  We wanted women to have choices…we wanted it so that women had equal opportunity to succeed.

Feminists should be excited for what Governor Palin has done for women — you don’t have to vote for her but you should give her credit for what she has been doing and is doing for women.

As for the sniping at other Feminists who support Governor Palin?

Get over it. Here is an idea: instead of sitting on your keyboard sniping at other Feminists …get off your a** and campaign for the other ticket! That’s a novel idea: DO! and make yourself relevant again! who knows? you might even become happy!

October 27, 2008

NEW AGENDA ON GRETAWIRE

Video of Governor Palin knocked unconscious and Reebok disavows connection to the violent video!

I was tipped off to a website that has been identifying and fighting sexism (click here.) The group and their website is called: THE NEW AGENDA, a non partisan group for women’s rights.

In addition to the tip to the website and video, I received a copy of this email below:

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Sent: Sun Oct 26 12:33:35 2008
Subject: FW: Another Success - New Agenda members speaking out…

As you may recall, we had asked our members to write to Reebok in protest of the Terry Tate video in which he is shown knocking Gov. Palin unconscious. Many of our members called or emailed Reebok, which was the original sponsor of the Terry Tate commercials back in 2001.

One of our members received the following response from Reebok.  Reebok has, as per our request, disavowed this video and it’s content.

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Below is the video and then the response from Reebok…


From: Diane Zappas
Date: Fri, Oct 24, 2008 at 11:02 AM
Subject: Reebok Response
To: _________

Dear _________,

Thank you for your note. We appreciate your interest and, yes, we’re well aware of this new video. However, let me reassure you that Reebok International has no connection today to Lester Speight or his fictional alter-ego, ‘Terry Tate’, and we disavow this personal new video and its content in full.

The confusion, regrettably, arises from our former association with the ‘Terry Tate’ character. In 2001, Reebok licensed the ‘Terry Tate’ character for a series of commercials, on a short-term basis – and our connection then ended. Reebok, therefore, does not control use of the character or the commercials. Any use of the ‘Terry Tate’ character today or in the future, therefore, does not reflect the views of Reebok, and we regret any confusion this might cause.

In fact, Reebok has a long and proud history of supporting women’s health and fitness. In 2006, Reebok announced its partnership with the Avon Walk Around the World for Breast Cancer. A series of walks to raise funds for breast cancer research, the walk has seen more than 50 cities worldwide raise awareness and money for this important cause. We’re proud of this sponsorship, and believe this more accurately reflects Reebok’s brand values – and views – in regards to women.

Thank you again for your inquiry.

Diane

October 20, 2008

TALKING 'BOUT THE C WORD AND FEMALE RIGHTS OF PASSAGE

By Joan Lipkin

For most women, there are instances and occasions that mark one’s awakening to the realities of their gendered life in America.  Some are full of joy, some painful and others a strong reminder that women are still second class citizens in this country.

What are some of these rites of passage?

The first time you get your period.

The first time you get a manicure or pedicure. 

The first time you buy a bra.

The first time you have sex.

The first time you realize you do not feel safe walking down the street by yourself.

The first time you realize that your opinion is not valued as much as some of the guys you know.

The first time you realize that the men you know make far more money than most of the women you know.

The first time you realize that men who do not do as good a job as some of the women you know are still getting the promotions.

The first time you realize you have never seen a woman on a printed bill and that there is no image of a woman carved onto Mount Rushmore.

The first time you realize the United States is the only country in the industrialized world that has not elected a woman to the highest office of the land.

The first time you realize that all sorts of people, including members of the media, can say sexist things about women and very few people or organizations call them on it, including organizations that promote general human rights and women’s rights.

And then, there’s the  first time you are a called a cunt.

Ouch.  You read correctly. It even hurts to read it on the printed page.

I remember the first time I was called a cunt. I was in college.  I disagreed with what a friend of my boyfriend wanted to do and he called me a cunt.  Loudly.  Across the room.

I remember the waves of shame washing over my face. Feeling reduced to my gender and gender alone, and in the most intimate way.  Suddenly understanding the relationship between voicing my opinion and being called a name that was intended to be derogatory and to keep me in my place.

Ouch.

It took me a long time to get over that.  And to get over the fact that no one said anything to counteract it.  Not my boyfriend.  Not the manager or the store.  Not anyone around us.

A simple, “Hey, man, knock it off,” or “That’s not cool,” or “ Please apologize to the young lady,”  would have helped. But there was nothing.

In that instance, I understood the old and young boys club and the loyalties that exist between men and how they often shore up each other’s insecurities or make excuses.

Cunt.

Kind of like nigger, kike, wop or faggot.

It is one of those words that civilized people should not use in reference to each other. In public or in private.  It is hurtful and conveys utter disrespect for women and yet it is undergoing a renaissance it would seem.

Recently, at political rallies for Barack Obama as well as John McCain, both men and women have shown up wearing tee shirts that read “Sarah Palin is a cunt”.

Remarkable.

Has all notion of civility gone out the door?? 

And what of the young women?  Do they not understand that they are colluding in their own denigration? Or do they think that putting down another woman with vulgar language will open the doors to the boys club?

And where are our organizations that supposedly promote women’s rights and dignity?

Like the National Organization for Women or Emily’s List or NARAL. 

Or are they primarily concerned with raising money?

John McCain mentioned the tee shirts during his third and final debate with Barack Obama on Wednesday although civility precluded him from going into the specifics.


Barack Obama brushed this aside, saying that all campaigns have some fringe elements.

Indeed, they do.  And his campaign seems to have a surplus of extremists. But Obama didn’t apologize for the actions of his devotees or say they were out of line.  Just like he was completely silent as the media excoriated Hillary Clinton for month after month after month  in sexist terms.

How differently I might feel about him had he said something.

Anything.

To be sure, I still would have a hard time excusing the fact that his campaign swamped the caucuses causing massive voter fraud, stripped Clinton of her rightful votes in Michigan and Florida and denied her an open and honest roll call at the Democratic Convention.

To be sure, I still would question his paper thin resume, lack of effectiveness in his own district in Illinois which he was elected to serve, his questionable associates like convicted felon Tony Rezko, unrepentant domestic terrorist William Ayers and Reverend Jeremiah Wright who promotes racism and anti-Semitism through the pulpit.

I cherish my opportunity and responsibility to vote. I know politics can be rough business so I am trying to be realistic.  I have asked myself what I can overlook since so much of the country has somehow excused Obama’s behavior.

I have tried. I have had countless conversations and read countless articles and viewed countless hours of television and I just can’t go there.

Because in addition to all of these other red flags, no matter how Obama paints it, he ultimately does not have respect for women.  He will not speak up when it is inconvenient for him and John McCain will.

Just who is this man?  How can Barack Obama--- who professes to revere his grandmother, his mother, his wife and two daughters--- stay silent in the face of this kind of sexism?  Who is he, really?

I’m thinking Just Say No Deal.

October 15, 2008

DISTURBING MUSIC RAP VIDEO

by Lynette Long

I have thought long and hard about posting this video because it is so disturbing.  The blatant disrespect it shows toward women, not just Republican women, is alarming.  It saddens me that not only are women not outraged by this video but participate in this.  Again I feel frustrated by the silence that envelopes the womens groups that are supposed to protect all women not just Democratic women. The task for equality seems impossible at times.  Stand tall women.  Stand with me. And find the names of the boys in this band and their email addresses.  Please help.

October 14, 2008

MORE ON THE T-SHIRTS FROM WAKE UP AMERICA

Monday, October 13, 2008

WOW Staffers Also Wear Sarah Palin C*nt T-Shirts

Yesterday we asked why the media was reporting a McCain supporter calling Barack Obama an "Arab" and completely ignoring Obama supporters calling Sarah Palin a cunt, even wearing T-shirts with the phrase "Sarah Palin is a cunt" on them.

This morning I see a quite a few links to yesterday's post, as well as some news outlets finally reporting it (ABC's Political Punch, LA Times' Top of the Ticket, The Politico and it was mentioned on Fox News at 9 a.m.)

In following a couple of the links to the original piece written here at WUA, I find there are more wearing those T-Shirts, named and posing proudly.... members of WOW staff, to be exact.

(Clockwise from left: Steve Sims, Kristy Benjamin, Lindsey Hager, Drew Forni, and Lindsay Woods. (Photos by Fred Dechow)


This is the mentality of certain Obama supporters...is anyone surprised?

I bet their parents are just so proud of them.

[Update] Another link to that original post led me to Freedom Eden who shows us that CafePress is even selling "Republicunt" T-shirts with a photo of Sarah Palin on them.





Freedom Eden shows others referring to Palin as a "bitch" and "Ho"...go look for yourself.

MORE ON THE T-SHIRTS FROM WAKE UP AMERICA

Monday, October 13, 2008

WOW Staffers Also Wear Sarah Palin C*nt T-Shirts

Yesterday we asked why the media was reporting a McCain supporter calling Barack Obama an "Arab" and completely ignoring Obama supporters calling Sarah Palin a cunt, even wearing T-shirts with the phrase "Sarah Palin is a cunt" on them.

This morning I see a quite a few links to yesterday's post, as well as some news outlets finally reporting it (ABC's Political Punch, LA Times' Top of the Ticket, The Politico and it was mentioned on Fox News at 9 a.m.)

In following a couple of the links to the original piece written here at WUA, I find there are more wearing those T-Shirts, named and posing proudly.... members of WOW staff, to be exact.

(Clockwise from left: Steve Sims, Kristy Benjamin, Lindsey Hager, Drew Forni, and Lindsay Woods. (Photos by Fred Dechow)


This is the mentality of certain Obama supporters...is anyone surprised?

I bet their parents are just so proud of them.

[Update] Another link to that original post led me to Freedom Eden who shows us that CafePress is even selling "Republicunt" T-shirts with a photo of Sarah Palin on them.





Freedom Eden shows others referring to Palin as a "bitch" and "Ho"...go look for yourself.

October 12, 2008

CHEWING THE FAT WITH OPHELIA

Chewing the Fat with Ophelia

October 12, 2008
by The New Agenda

A fireside chat with Ophelia.

Can we talk?

Are you sick of these lying politicians? Are you tired of picking up the newspaper just to find more vile personal insults of female politicians? Are you worried about the economy and furious that we’re in this mess? Are you so angry and upset you could SCREAM?

Well, ladies and gentlemen, you are hardly alone. The country is going through a real rough patch and we need to be there for one another.

Enter Ophelia.

Ophelia is here to listen and understand – not judge. Ophelia, just like you, is pissed off and needs to vent. So, can we talk? Can we share our stories? Can we try to make each other feel a little better?

The New Agenda is proud to announce our first BlogTalkRadio show, Chewing the Fat with Ophelia, Monday night, October 13, at 10pm EST.

This is a new kind of radio: internet podcasting. The “radio” is your computer — all you have to do is go to the website when the show is scheduled to start, and the show will play right there on your computer screen. (You do have to have your computer speakers turned on!) There’s also a telephone number for you to call in and talk to the host or ask a question, just like with traditional radio shows: (347) 324-5942. Plus, there’s a chat room feature too, so you can “chat” with other listeners while you’re listening to the show. And if you miss the live broadcast, a recording of the program is automatically stored right there on the page so you can listen to it later.

We’ve been reading the emails and comments from around the country and it’s clear: people want and need to vent! Call in and tell Ophelia what you’re feeling. Sisters need to help sisters in this difficult time.

Our first show is Monday, October 13, 2008, from 10pm to 11pm EST. The call-in number is (347) 324-5942. Join us!

We should also mention that Ophelia knows a thing or two about the economy. If there’s something that you have heard or read, and you don’t understand it, ask Ophelia. C’mon, admit it – you don’t know what a mortgage security is either….

T-SHIRTS FOR SALE ON LINE

Someone sent me a photo of four men wearing this t-shirt outside a Palin speech.  And what would happen to me if I wore a similiar t-shirt about Obama?  Is NOW going to say anything about this?

T-Shirt :: Sarah Palin Is A Cunt!

NOT IN AMERICA

Someone sent me this list of women leaders from around the world. Thanks.  We need to remember it is possible here too and keep fighting.

Prime Minister Indira Gandhi, India
Minister President Golda Meïr, Israel
Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, United Kingdom of Great Britain
Federal Chancellor Angela Merkel, Germany
Prime Minister Sirimavo Ratwatte Dias Bandaranaike, Sri Lanka
Cristina E. Fernández Wilhelm de Kirchner, Argentina
President Pratibha Patil, India
Acting President Dalia Itzik, Israel
President of the Confederation Micheline Calmy-Rey, Switzerland
Executive President Michelle Bachelet Jeria, Chile
Executive President Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf, Liberia
Capitano Reggente Fausta Simona Morganti, San Marino
Acting Joint Head of State Barbara Prammer, Austria
Capitano Reggente Valeria Ciavatta, San Marino
Acting President Natasa Micic, Serbia 
Executive President Megawati Sukarnoputri, Indonesia
Executive President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo, The Philippines
Capitano Reggente Maria Domenica Michelotti, San Marino
President Tarja Halonen, Finland
Executive President Mireya Moscoso Rodrígez, Panama
President Vaira Vīķe-Freiberga, Latvia
President of the Confederation Ruth Dreifuss, Switzerland
Executive President Janet Jagan, Guyana
President Mary McAleese, Ireland
Acting Executive President Rosalia Arteaga Serrano de Fernández de Córdova, Ecuador
Chairman of the Council of State Ruth Sando Perry, Liberia
Acting Head of State Sylvie Kinigi, Burundi
President Mary Robinson, Ireland
Executive President Violeta Barrios de Chamorro, Nicaragua
Acting Head of State Dr. Sabine Bergmann-Pohl, East-Germany
Acting President Ertha Pascal-Trouillot, Haiti
Executive President Maria Corazón Sumulong Cojuangco Aquino, The Philippines 
Acting Head of State Carmen Pereira, Guinea Bissau
President Agatha Barbara, Malta
President Vigdís Finnbogadóttir, Iceland
Interim Executive President Lydia Gueiler Tejada, Bolivia
Executive President Maria Estella Martínez Cartas de Perón, Argentina
Acting Head of State Song Qingling, China
Acting Head of State Sühbaataryn Yanjmaa, Mongolia
Head of State Khertek Anchimaa-Toka, People's Republic of Tannu Tuva
Prime Minister Michèle Pierre-Louis, Haiti
Acting President of the Executive Council Marthe Ogoundélé-Tessi, St-Martin
Prime Minister Zinaida Grecianîi, Moldova
Premier Viveca Eriksson, Åland (Finish External Territory)